Single…

Being single is not that excited as it may seem. Yes, you get a lot of free time, yes you save money, yes you save some energy. However is being single worth it?

I’ve been single for a long time now. After breaking up from a long term relationship which lasted for over 3 years, you kind of see the whole world of relationship way differently than others. You really got used to the other person. And you expectations for the new date will be set high, simply because your used to that. For some magical reason you expect another person to be better. You expect them to instantly have that telepathic connection you had with your ex.

I remember waiting for a really important meeting, and be all worried, just browsing cellphone, when all of a sudden a text came from her, saying “don’t worry”. Because when you really in love, you guys share that special connecting between you two. Maybe for some its magic, but for people who in love after a long time its the reality.

However, what to do when you guys are ex’s now. What to do after a breakup. After you got so used to another person, when you can’t even imagine where to start looking for someone else. Or how you even know if you ready to start another relationship.

After being single for a while, you realize you know absolutely nothing about dating, You come up with a lame starting phrase. Or you get over confident, or too shy. It seems like its impossible to find someone. You just stare around, you see all those people, and you wonder how … HOW do you get into the relationship. You just know nothing, like a little kid who start learning how to walk. However since you not kid anymore, comes the fear, that you wont find anyone… and the longer your alone… the more depressing it becomes. Not a good way to start looking for a new relationship. Not shaved, depressed, all grumpy…. You feel like that lost kitten, sitting in the middle of the street under the rain.

Stop! Look around! the world is amazing, there is so many things to do. Remember when you wait, time runs longer. It’s better to get your self busy! go workout, go study, go work, go for a walk. Anywhere she or he maybe waiting for you to show up. You wont get anywhere sitting on one spot. But taking one step a day, may actually lead you to your destination. No one will care for you, but you. No one is you. Your the only person who knows your self, and cares. SO STAND UP AND GO!
There is no tomorrow, or yesterday. Maybe tomorrow will be a third world war, and all you going to do is run around with a automatic riffle. Do what you can today, because today is all you have.

Gone.

When you leave and no one notices. You have friends, have family, co workers, students, etc,. However how many of them are real? How many of those people will wonder where did you go when you leave.

I think humans weren’t made to be apart from each other. We all need someone special in our lives. But what happens when we don’t?

Where will the road lead… leaving your house, and looking at it from far. You may stand for a while, and see if someone runs chasing you. You may hold your cellphone and wait with hopes that someone will call. But what if you all alone. What if having all those friends, and family is an illusion. What if all this world is just an illusion. What if this is just another dream?

Invisible Isolation

We all say we want to be part of society. We want to have friends, family, significant others. However we keep isolating ourselves from others. Everyday is a hide-n-seek game day. We hide behind those huge computer screens on work. At home we dive into our living room television, and or playing video games in our rooms. Even when we actually go out with someone we keep hiding and interrupting our “real life interaction” with people and take a break to check cellphone. Write a status on facebook, twit, instagram or text message someone. We simply unable to run from technology anymore. We make excuses that technology is so big and significant in our lives that we are unable to disconnect ourselves anymore. We live in two separate world. The more into the future the more into technological world we heading to. Even little kids are now having Iphones in kindergartens. I personally saw a couple on the valentines day, sitting next table, flowers on the table, romantic atmosphere, and both of them were constantly texting in their cellphones, and only once in a while stop, look at each other, smile, and dive back to cellphone. When friends go out for a beer, or just a talk they keep they technological buddies right there, checking, texting, instagramming. You can’t hold to any real person anymore. Everyone have their own facebook world, linkedln for business, twitter, email, instagram, and probably a huge amount of other websites. We simply don’t live in real world anymore. Terrorists don’t need to make explosions on the streets anymore, they can just simply turn off the internet and boom, half of the world will drop dead. Is this a world we dreamed of? Get out! Go meet new people, be random and say hi to strangers, and its not crazy, its how the real world is. Where people communicate without facebook, where saying hi to a stranger is okay! Where singing on the street is not sign of craziness. When having a coffee with a friend, or significant other, or just yourself is fine! People need to re-meet the world they live in.